Strong And Self Confident by Sakoieta

I have found many times in my life the best way to be able to help others in an appropriate manner was to first make sure that I was strong and positive in the ways I handle any situations in my own life. Understanding this then gave me the ability to help without enabling or taking some one else’s burden as my own.Several times the people who I helped became angry at this until they eventually realized that by my taking on their burden I was depriving them of their strength and spirit in being able to reason in a manner that, as a good counselor should, had them able to free themselves by using their own knowledge and power to do so.